How a guy could wreck two girl's friendship....
How a girl could wreck two guy's friendship....
Such power the genders both have... And such power 'love' has...
Notice the inverted commas??? Yea, which of us know what's love??? Claim to like/love this person, go crazy over that person... When u realise you cant get him/her, u realise again that he/she ain't the one for you... So much for loving him/her...
So much for saying sticking to the very end... So much for saying that person is the one.... Head over heels at first, in the process, but not at the end... Love, you know what it is??? Cause I dun... Just yet.... Too young, to realise what it is....
Couples go out when they are my age, but how many get married in the end??? All the lovey dovey stuff that you do when you are together, it all comes to a nought... Nothing, just lessons learnt on how to go for more 'love'....
Holding hands, hugging and everything you can think of that you probably done before... The person u did it with, may well not be your future... Thinking about the person, wondering if he/she notices you, remembers you... When you realise it ain't that way, you stop.... Hesitate, then give up...
Damage done... You dun dare to 'love' anymore.... You dun want to be hurt... The pinch was all too painful... But hold on, thats not love that you have just experienced... Is that sense of betrayal, that you were never part of that person's thoughts... Never part of that person at all...
Finding the other one is not easy... Not randomly adding girls/guys u think are good looking on facebook... For all you noe, he /she is not what you think they are...(Think Edison Chen... I not saying he's gd looking though...)
Changing ppl that you like like you are jobhopping and landing at the start... Back to the person... yea, got to be the right one... Since I was lead there in the end... Sure about it??? Since u jumped at the start, what makes you think you wont jump again....
No answer means no hope??? Probably... Spam all you wan and get no reply... No hope??? Nahh... Think of the other person, how am I going to answer this guy/girl that likes me??? Maybe shy, maybe dun noe what to say, maybe busy or just maybe, you were wasting your time...
Relationships thrive on mystery... Get to noe a person too well, you grow sick of him/her... Mystery, means there is always something to talk about.... Something to keep that relationship going... Dun believe me??? You can try... Go find some random person that you would like, get to know him/her more and more... After a while, you feel it's getting boring... All u talk about is how your day is today, how your feeling... The good mornings and good nights get all too tiring... It's just like playing a game for a month, won't you get sick of it???
Love is complicated.... Starting a relationship is like driving on an expressway, it justs goes zoom zoom and zoom as we get to noe each other better... Then it gets off the expressway, and slows down like a traffic jam... Slow moving... Makes you frustrated, irritated and annoyed... Ending a relationship, is like a car accident... It happens so suddenly, both of you never expected it... It just came to you both... The impact is hard, it hurts the passengers... Both are in pain, both are hurting... But both of you know,this was inevitable... Driving a car, an accident is inevitable right???
Indulging in it is ok... But over indulging(if there is such a word), is not... Just like in the water, river, ocean... The deeper you go, the more pressure you feel... The more you like a person, the more painful it is to let go.... But letting go is needed... If you do not, you will drown in agony... Your own agony...
Not that I dun believe in love, but I do think it exists... But you cant live your life based on love... They say it's not love that keeps the married together, but is their children... Love plays a part, but not the type of love that we think, but love as a responsibility, love, for your own flesh and bone...
Having a partner is by no means easy... For the mutual understanding, accepting one another for who they are... Love blinds... It covers up all the flaws, and shines the light on the pluses... Finding a partner, is not so easy... The young couples that are still in secondary school, that's not love... If it is, those who want to get married, but cant, would have long ago...
Picking someone to follow you for the other half of your life, is not like picking your clothes you are going to wear for the day... People make it seem like a walk in the park... A stroll even... But that's not the case... It's like a sprint, a sprint to the end, with the speed of your 100m dash... There's no end... It ends only when your energy is all used up... It's tiring, the lactic acid will make you feel like quitting... You fall, you get a big cut... But you cant stop... That's love... Easy to start, difficult, tiring and painful to maintain...
The other half, gives you a part of your life that you can never have... Not the kissing, hugging or whatever more that the very young couples do... It gives so much more... More than you can think of...
Love... Are you ready for it???